Always compliment a woman
When you compliment a woman, you should always try to make it as specific as possible.
If you give a woman a general compliment (“you are pretty”, you have nice eyes”) she’ll be pleased. But there are quite a few problems:
It looks like you’re not really paying attention to her
It looks like you have a generic compliment queued up that you use on every girl
She doesn’t feel that she’s earned the compliment
You come across as a guy who doesn’t bother to really see what is special about every person
She’ll wonder if you really do like her or if you are just using the compliment as an excuse to start a conversation with her.
Now the reason most guys end up using a generic compliment is actually none of the above! It’s simply that they don’t have a lot of experience giving genuine compliments. Giving a really nice compliment is a skill and it needs to be worked on.
Here’s a fun little game that will enable you to practise.
Every time you leave the house, notice the people walking towards you and silently give them a compliment. Don’t discriminate: it can be a guy, a girl, old or young, attractive or not. Just pick one thing about their looks, dress, manner or bearing that makes them attractive and/or unique.
It’s best to phrase it in the second person as that is how you’ll eventually be giving the compliment.
For example:
You have lovely clear fresh skin
You have a very intelligent face
Your clothes are beautifully-chosen and really suit you
You have fantastic salt-and-pepper hair; it makes you look very distinguished
You have a very sexy walk
I love your trainers- they look great with those jeans
You have great posture
That hat looks great on you- I would never think to wear something like that!
The great thing about this game is that you can do it when you’re really not feeling like talking to people. I always do it on the tube, for example. There’s not much else to look at, so I go around the carriage and notice something attractive about all of the other passengers.
From here it’s quite a small step to actually delivering the compliment (after all, you’ve already spent the mental effort noticing it!). And you’ll find that your actual compliments are much more charming and personalised.
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